At the moment, as I write this, I’m looking out into a wooded glade. The sky behind this glade, which is on the side of a sloping hill, is sunlit but with gathering grey cloud and a rising wind. It is peaceful but there is a sense of change coming, of a storm approaching. I am sad. I am torn. One of the cities I love has been attacked, my city of lights, of love, has been brutalised in the name of a god who, if he/she existed, would strike down with furious vengeance the perpetrators of this horror. The sadness is all pervading, it has seeped into my very bones. I know, truly, what it is to have a heavy heart. I watch the news obsessively, seeing the body count rise, hearing the witnesses’ stories, gathering the opinions of those who are in charge and I despair. What on earth is it in us that can contemplate such brutality? Celebrate it, see it a ‘blessed’ thing? On the television, through Twitter and Facebook there are people with messages of support and love. I have been one myself, my avi and profile pictures changed to reflect my love for that great city and its people. But what is that? The re-arrangement of some pixels on a screen? Is it any more significant than liking a motivational poster? Do I feel any better for ‘hanging in there’? I don’t know. One thing that doesn’t work for me are the statistics. A man once said, “I can tell you anything with statistics, except the truth”, and that is true here. What difference does it make that in Europe only 2% of terror attacks have been religious based? Or that 0.003% of those that call themselves Muslim are behind such attacks? This isn’t a ‘nerd off’, a comparison between Xbox and PS4, Star Trek and Star Wars, this is lives. What does the attack feel like? What effect does it have? That is what is important. It is right to play down the numbers of people who do this, to talk of a small minority, but oh, what an effect.We cannot deny the shock, the horror, the loss and depression that comes with such an attack and, to be honest with you, the statistics are small beer in relation to what I am feeling right now. And what I feel is varied. I am incredibly labile, the feelings come in waves: despair, sadness, pity, scorn, love. I have been writing a sort story, one where a victim of a tragedy that is unfolding goes through the five stages of grief: denial, anger, negotiation, depression and acceptance. I did wonder if that is what I am going through too. Currently I am at depression. It is easy to quickly experience the others, from “This can’t be happening”, to “Those bastards”, to “Only talk will stop this”. I don’t know if the last is true, but I do know that killig won’t solve it, it has never solved anything. Killing leads to complications, to further hatred, to further killing.
For me, the thing to fall back on is my past. I grew up in London at a time when the IRA was in full swing, when their strategy was to bring terror to mainland Britain, bring the war to the people. We were shocked by the bombings, the assassinations, the terror. I lived through that as a boy and young man, and maybe it was because I was young that it had less effect, maybe it was because my lfe was full of hope, love, work, friends. Or maybe it was because I recognised that, like the trite tee shirt slogan, you keep calm and you carry on. And I think that is what I recognise about today. I remember 7/7, I remember how the reaction to it rose is inverse proportion to the distance from it. I was right there, I came close to being on the Piccadilly line train that was attacked and I kept calm and carried on. I had friends from the US convinced we were sitting in the burnt ruins of a city, or we were dead and devastated – distance does a funny thing to your perceptions. We Kept Calm, we Carried On. That is what I will do too.